You should spend some time and thought in making your social style smoother and sweeter, even though you sometimes find that approach stifling. Often what you say to a lover may seem clear and necessary at the time, but your words may cause emotional harm unintentionally.
Similarly, in a sexual situation, you may enjoy expressing your great talent for originality, but you should rely on your lover's judgement about how far you can go before experimentation gets in the way of communication.
Although you yourself can do much to consciously control this tendency, a stable partner whom you can trust will be of great value in pointing out where you tend to go overboard.