. What motivates me?
Motivation is the fuel that powers our actions, our actions are what create the results we experience in life. To answer the question, what motivates me, take a look at your life. When you accomplish something, identify what it was that motivated you to complete it. Watch when you get excited, what are you feeling excited about, that's motivation.
You can also learn by discovering what your motives more when you didn't take the actions that you said you would. If you set a goal, and then fail to achieve it, look at how you spent your time instead. Identifying these motivations can be just as important to your ability to be true to yourself.
When you discover what truly motivates you, you are well on your way to creating a life you love.