This is good, since she would never settle for anything less! Estée wants to be adored and worshipped like the royalty she feels she is, and it is difficult for anyone to resist the warmth and attention Lauder lavishes on those she cares about. Estée Lauder has a great deal of pride and needs to be recognized and appreciated. The way to really hurt her feelings is to ignore her. She is genuine, sincere, and has a strong sense of personal integrity. Estée Lauder hates emotional games and dishonesty.