I am Female and do not have a good figure.
I am afraid of someone finding out.
I live in Thailand and Meetups are too far away from where I live.
I don't have transportation.
They cost too much.
I would see someone I know.
My wife would find out.
My co-workers might find out.
I would like to first attend a clothed meeting to start. Where everyone has clothes on.
I think Meetups should be gender balanced