Interviewer: Can people improve their ability to make small talk? Expert: Yes, absolutely, I used to hate making small talk. Then I examined the way small talk works. Interviewer: What did you learn? Expert: You need to avoid awkward silences. It is ok to talk about the weather or current events. It is a good idea to give a few details about such as was a to wait ten so cold morning. It was freezing waiting for the bus to work, and I had this minutes. work law office downtown. Interviewer: That seems simple. And is it a good idea to ask questions? Yes. of small talk is to ask questions Ask for more information about The golden rule Expert: what the other person just said. Be interested. Ask question on general subjects such as the party or the food. However, a basic rule is not to ask any question that you would not want to answer yourself. Interviewer: Any more golden rules? and leave a good impression, Expert: Yes. Listen. If you really want to connect with someone but listen to what the person is saying. Understand their points. You can disagree, don't interrupt. Interviewer: Do you have any final tips? elevator, at the gym. at the grocery Expert: Yes, you must practice. Practice small talk in the store. You may end up enjoying it