caregiver's Response Bobby's teacher walked with him to the quiet area. -You are having a bad day she said. First, you need a few minutes by yourself to calm down Then you need to find words to talk abou how you feel." Bobby plopped himself down on a beanbag chair and said in an angry voice, Go away! I hate you and I hate everybody and I hate my baby brother.-The teacher responded in a calm voice, "You are feeling sad and left out. It's hard having a new baby brother who takes up so much of your omm's time. Now sulking. Bobby answered. "I'm going to throw him in the garbage and get him dead and send him back to the hospital still calm and patient, the teacher replied, "Maybe instead, you could say to your mommy, I dont like you spending so much time with that baby. I need you to spend time with me.'