Hi Dear,
I feel sad and shock of what happened and I know at this time there is nothing that we can talk as I think you have already make the decision.
I do not want you to return any things that I have given you such as the engagement ring (Diamond) and the other diamond ring. As for the amount 35,000 baht that still have in your account I also do not need you to return the money to me. All these things I would like to give you as a gift and hope you will be happy for future.
Do you know why I am chasing to get married fast? Actually I did not tell you that I have been offer a job to go USA to work as I was thinking to give you a surprise. I have been offered the job in Dec 2014. When we went to ChiangMai Ovier ask me whether I will bring you to USA or not but I told her I need to get married before you can go as making the visa is very difficult.
I have already made my decision that I will be relocate to USA to work and as I am currently already now in USA. I have already bid farewell to all my Singapore friends and I have let my mother know that I will going there to work till end of the years and if everything is good I will bring my mother to USA as I have brought a house many years back and I think you will still remember that I went to USA in 2006 for a month when we have out first big quarrel. All these years I have to pay for the installment for the house so I am left with little money.
I have not been a good son or grandson to my mother and grandmother as all these year they hope that I can find someone to spend my rest of my life with. What I have promised to my mother and grandmother to married you will not come truth. I know it is hard and difficult for you and me especially what we have gone through.
I just want to let you know some of the issue that shocks me.
- You send an email telling me that I have only 2 options to make, as Option 1 is to buy house and Option 2. As for Option 2 you are asking for a dowry of 2 million Baht and 10 Baht gold. This statement have shown me how much you know me and how much you think I have loved you all these years. Below are some things that we talk and what I have done for you. You also mention on both your email that you don’t want to talk and don’t want me to come.
- Before we went to see your father I have explain to you why I don’t buy house and why we don’t need to buy house. When I see your father and sister I explain to them what we have discuss that I will not buy house and you have agreed as I told you that I have house in Singapore and you also tell me that your father don’t need anything but I don’t understand why you say your father ask every things and I don’t want??? I can rent out the house in Singapore and we will have around 60,000 Baht to spend. I did not tell you that I have another house in USA because I was thinking we could live there as I already have a job. If we did not live there I can rent out and it is around USD3200 (60,000 Baht). We have around 120,000 Baht to spend so why we need to buy house. Do you think we can spend 120,000 Baht a month??? We can live very comfortably in HatYai and Singapore and we can travel around to many places and be happy. Yes I know we need to take care of parents but this have to be share amount your family member. I don’t mind giving your parents every month some pocket money.