You ask me “what you want exactly”
To know the reply to your question, just consider one thing: Nui and I, we were not simply gf and bf, we were planning to marry.
Forget her words and tears for a while and use your brain
understand what this means for me and what this means for you too.
She asked me to talk to her mum and her dad, I shared with her the most private of my family and life and she did the same.
If you consider this maybe you won’t be surprised that she was with me last week, right?
Paolo Pao
02/11/2015 11:02
Paolo Pao
When I started with her, she was driving 10 hours just to see me 1 day, she was talking about how good and unlucky she was, and how much she wanted to marry and have babies. This year she got more stressed for the restaurant we opened together and in March every day she asked me to make plan, to marry. I finally accepted it: she asked me to go to Europe and know my family, we travelled. Why she came and why she lied you?
Don’t worry, she lied to me too, she never ever told me about you, she never told me she was with you in CM, I just found out in her mobile, She cried like crazy and asked me to give her another chance, time will show me she is honest. She told me she was just “kind” to you (sounds familiar?), she even tried to suicide. I believed her, in Sept we took a condo in Bkk and we were making plans, Then at the end of September her friend in Chiang Mai sent me screenshots of her chat talking about you. Nui told me I should not speak with this girl, this girl made a story just because she was angry. In October we decided to take time, to think what to do, I went to Laos, she told me she went to a gf in bkk. For 2 weeks, every day Nui chatted with me, writing she was bored and lonely in Bkk, she wrote me: I will see you for your bday and we will go to my sis’s party. when I asked about you she always denied it, told me she blocked you, she never loved you, she didn’t want to go to Phuket. She even told me that if I married her she would have disappeared from you, but I didn’t have to contact you. Sometimes she told me you are crazy for her (your friends told her), you lost your dad, and she just wanted to be kind with you.
Paolo Pao
02/11/2015 11:02
Paolo Pao
Do you know why we finished? And when? Or maybe you just don’t care, so why do you ask me to send you pics and chats?
Paolo Pao
02/11/2015 11:03
Paolo Pao
Nui knows how to manage you, you are so young she said. I cannot play this game, I even received stupid messages from her friend.
If you care, I guess you can just answer yourself some simple questions, or you can ask Nui to show you her email or Line or FB.
but anyway what’s for? you believe what you want to believe. And the more I tell you the more you think I want to separate you. You know if I wanted to separate you I could have done it before right?
Paolo Pao
02/11/2015 11:03
Paolo Pao
Maybe now you understand that I have to be surprised and upset, not you.
You knew Nui was with me, I didn’t know she was with you.
I am the one that should ask you, what do you want now exactly?
Paolo Pao
02/11/2015 11:06
Paolo Pao
If you want to have fun, you can do, it’s normal at your age. Just it is not fair for what I wrote before: we were engaged, is it really good from your side to play with a girl that is engaged? You may find this pathetic, but it is not. I loved her so much, and I did really try to help her, especially in her worst times. Having a guy now young handsome player, seducing her with his free cool life, with his nice villa with pool, with his plan to move to Australia together, that is not fair. You know how many Thai girls would come to live with you? Ok, life is not always fair. Just pay attention cause it can get back to you the same way. Forget the nice pictures, the makeup filters, and remember this: the reality is she feels old, she has pressure from her family, she wants to settle down and get a baby next year, she never wanted to use condom with me and no pills, never.
If you are serious, if you are so in love as Nui says, if you really want to settle down at 25, I think you are crazy but it’s up to you. From her side it is simple: she will stay with you as far as you can make her feel she can live the life she wants. And you? What do you want from your wife? One thing that I honestly cannot understand of you is that you look young and cool, I guess you can get any girl you want now, European or Asian or Australian, educated, professional, with solid family and economy, and young. I am not devaluating Nui, at all, I was proud to be with her. But you are half of my age and I cannot even imagine how at 25 I can ever wish to settle down with a girl 10 years older. Whoever she is. Do you really think it will be fun for you having a wife of 40 when you are still young, or imagine when you have my age and your wife is almost 60… Normally men like younger partner. This is not my business but in a few years you will see if I am right or not.
I am not speaking behind her back, I told her the same.
Paolo Pao
02/11/2015 11:09
Paolo Pao
I am tired of this Jack, what i wrote you today is just to close with your questions, and I wrote from my heart if you can feel it. You can laugh at me and delete, you can keep and think, up to you. I have no revenge no satisfaction with this, i am not speaking bad about Nui, I’m not telling many things, because i promised her not to tell you. The only thing I care is what she does. I can be strict and hard now, but inside I am deeply hurt because I really wanted the best for her . I dont know why I am writing you honestly in this way, I should dislike you instead, because you never worried to check with me even if you knew she was with me. But I know the lies and I hope one day you will understand me. What do I want exactly? Maybe what i want is to see the Nui i was in love with. She is not the Nui I see now, she is not the Nui I saw in Patong. Yes, i am a dreamer. Ok. As I said before, in a few years you may realize if I am right or not.
Paolo Pao
02/11/2015 11:09
Paolo Pao
what do you want exactly?