I never believe for true love, because now it became rarity. From my point of view first important things is respect each other, but not love him for his appearance. If two people will understand each other, and be like a good friend and adviser, I know that they will build a strong family. everything started from understanding each other not from Love as you said.
usually if people say I love her, and they both quickly love each other, first problem will star from distrust and misunderstanding each other, then what of course money.