I can't do that and I won't do that. Some day you may resent me for that. I won't take that chance and I don't want to be a part of taking the opportunity of having a child away from you.
Por, I will support you and I will be your friend and I want you to find happiness. You really need to take some time for yourself and think about what's really important to you in your life. I still think your last relationship is much too close to your heart now.
Don't give up on your dreams. You are 31 . . . I will be 45 in a couple of months. Find someone closer to your age that wants to start a family. And whatever you do, don't rush into any relationship! Please. I'm saying this because I truly care. If I was 10 years younger (or if you had no desire to have a baby), I would want to be that guy to give it a chance with you. For whatever reason though, the timing of us meeting, the circumstances we are both in . . . it doesn't seem to be ideal for either one of us. I'm sorry but I won't let you give up on having a baby of your own.