As I'm generally a bit shy, I tend to avoid certain situations. I don't like loud parties, for example, as I find them difficult places to relax and have real conversations. I don’t really enjoy the kinds of conversations people have at big parties when they are meeting new people - about who you are, and where you’re from. Even though I don't like big social gatherings, I enjoy talking to small groups of people. Ideally, I prefer one-on-one conversations with my close friends. When I first came to this town, I wanted to meet people and make friends. It was certainly a challenge for me. However, I joined a weekly book club. In addition, I started a language class. I enjoy socializing at the book club and my Spanish class, as it's easier to talk to people when you have something in common.