After reading your profile, let me give you an advice, ok?
You should delete the item "Romance / Flirting" of your "Looking for" box. Neither romance nor flirting are for looking for a relationship. Relationship already has it's own item, didn't you notice it?
I think that you are not looking for a romance because Romance doesn't mean do romantic things during a love relationship. Here It means an affair, or an impossible love because some reason: age, distance, cheating ...
And I think that you are not looking for flirting because it's a sexual game, only for have fun. You can check the meaning in the dictionary with this link: