FIGHT OR FLIGHT RESPONSE
FIGHT-Face the problem and try to solve it
FLIGHT-trying to forget the problem
-watching movies/TV
-taking a vacation
-alcohol, etc.
3. Techniques to cope with stress
-imagery
-meditation
-relaxation therapy
SOLVING A STRESSFUL PROBLEM
INTUITION-the initial feeling that you have the solution
INCUBATION-you focus on something else or do nothing but meanwhile your unconscious mind searches for a solution
INSIGHT-Solving the problem
These steps involve becoming aware of one’s biases and freeing the mind.
Ego=>self
MIND AND REALITY
A major cause of stress are our mental realities
We do not see reality as it is but we filter it through our biases, values and emotions.
Some people see a stressful event as a challenge while others see it as a tragedy.
MINDFULNESS
MINDFULNESS is our ability to see reality as it is
“awareness of present experiences with acceptance” (Seigel and Germer, 2008)
Awareness means that we notice what happens in our minds and outside our minds. It helps us get free from our emotions and obsessions.
Acceptance-working with our life events and not trying to control them (go with the flow)
MINDFULNESS AND MINDLESSNESS
MINDLESSNESS-doing things by force of habit or rushing through them, or thinking about something else while we do them (think of your own examples)
Think of a moment in your life when you were fully present
Our minds are usually busy with remembering the past or imagining the future.
Try to be present right now.
Mindfulness-being present and perceiving the reality around us.
MINDFULNESS PRACTICE
Everyday Mindfulness-reminding ourselves to pay attention to what happens in the moment.
-sensations in your body
-taste of food
-appearance of surroundings
Formal Meditation –dedicating a certain period to sit quietly in meditation
Retreat Practice-extended periods of formal practice (common in Buddhist temples). Through the experience of silence and awareness we notice how our minds create suffering