aterThanks for stopping by. I am re-writing this from scratch, so it is going to be a brief version of the former. I am actually 42, maybe 47, hell, who cares! I keep my age at 45 to be in a more active search profile. FIRST.... I am divorced from an 20 year relationship. We just grew apart...wish I could give you a better description. No violence, and even an easy divorce with high-net-worth issues put aside, Lucy died sometime last month in a car accident she was driving under the influence,! , we had a very good post-marital relationship based on the premise of putting our kids (Kimberly 12 ) through the least possible trauma. she actually like it better this way. keeping her living in the home she is used too, and she is comfortable, as I im. i have been outta the dating world since my divorce nearly 5 years ago. See below as to what I look for in a friend, and a lover/partner/wife I am an easy-going witty spontaneous individual who likes challenges and adventures and likes to try new things and has a good sense of humor, loves animals and children but likes the independent adult life I lead. I am so new to this and its will be really nice reading a note from you out there, we both understand that There is more hunger for love and appreciation in this world than for bread. am independent, talented, very stable and emotionally mature. Iâm also goofy plus healthy, happy and wise with great Romance. I realize that love is the natural mold of existence and it is my task to choose love, rather than fear as I am co-creating my reality with my thoughts, beliefs, attitudes and actions. I don't blame anything outside of myself for my lack of fulfillment. Professionally, I'm consultant also a contractor who works from home just so i have time for my for my girl, Its really not easy been the boss but its good deal lol, i also wanna-be author who loves helping people unravel the misconceptions of their souls; discovering how they have organized parts of their lives around false beliefs that betray the best of who they are and the gifts they have come to give. I love music and often dance in my living room, love to cook for others when I have the time and absolutely love being out in nature as well as movies, comedy and the arts.
Who I'd like to meet:
I am looking for my best friend, lover and confidant! A lady who takes care of her body and her mind. Someone who has a sense of style about herself and appreciates how nice clothes make her feel.Someone who brings interesting things to the relationship such as her own ideas, curiosity, shared interest, chemistry and charm. Someone who will contribute as much to the relationship as I will. I would like someone who is always considerate of others and gives more than they take. I am looking for someone who will accept me for who I am, even when I am at my worst. Someone who will cheer for me at karaoke or hold me when I am hurt. Someone who will be able to act silly with me when I feel like cutting loose, or be serious and responsible when the situation warrants. Someone who can be spontaneous and willing to change plans at the drop of a hat Someone who can make decisions without being controlling. I want someone who will be honest, open and supportive and I will be all those things to her.I fully expect to find a woman who both wants and needs me. Someone who brings little drama to the relationship except the positive drama we create together. If anything I have written here interest you, drop me a note and let us see what happens. Distance is only a temporary not a barrier. I loathe gold-diggers, and have dated a few. I can understand the wish to have a stable, "privileged" life, but just be up front about it! It is OK to want that as a woman, or a guy for that matter. Some are attracted to success, stability, the finer things, etc. BUT DAMMIT, JUST BE UP FRONT ABOUT IT FROM DAY ONE!!!! I am not asking too much am I??? BE HONEST! IT IS OK TO H