By creating the opportunity for the guy to chase you, you’re not being mean, or stingy, or doing anything terrible — ask any psychologist and they’ll tell you that men generally respond best to women who behave this way because they need to feel like they hunted you and won you. They’re just wired that way — it’s how they’re built. We forget that because we’re built differently. So, don’t serve yourself to a guy on a silver platter… It’s a turn off.