Nong relationship to work
I love you and Narwin very much. It continues to get stronger even when I am away.
- family decision making, very happy to hear family friends and teachers points of view and ideas but we must be able to make a final decision together
- I want 2 children, I will be happy supportive good father. I would like the children with 2-3 yr age gap. I have seen many family and this works best.
- if we have disagreement, we need to exhaust all forms of discussion before an argument evolves into dangerous behaviour. I don't want this late at night, so we need to schedule a time e.g Saturday mornings 10.00 am
Most of the time it can be simple communication misunderstanding.
- forgiveness. My culture is one of forgiveness, it's the basis for our religion, we try not to hold a grudge I.e. I agree there are things that cannot be forgiven. However you must try to understand the real severity of things that have upset you. If you are unable to do this in yourself then I am afraid our relationship may degrade and die in the future. I don't want this.