If I’m getting that right, it is that what makes it hurt worst of all is that when he tells you you’re no good, well shucks, that’s what you’ve always felt about yourself. Is that the meaning of what you’re saying? (Client nods slight, indicating agreement) M-hm. So you feel as though he’s just confirming what you’ve already known. He’s confirming what you’ve already felt in some way. (Silence of 23 seconds)