A message of concern for Samane68
After I've posted my last post yesterday, Sameane68 sent me a PM blaming herself for my leaving and also apologized to me for the her recent posts that she felt have created misunderstandings/conflicts that caused an unhappy vibe in the thread. I have also sent her a re-assuring email to her private email yesterday and have also left her a PM earlier but I got no respond so far. I'm very worry for her so I also making a post here, I hope she will respond back that she is ok and not hurting anymore. I'll put everything in a spoiler tag from this point because it will be somewhat sensitive, though I hope you can read it so that you may understand her a little better from my perspective.
About Samane68
I've only got to know her only briefly from exchanging a few comments since last week. You would have seen my posts/comments to her but I have been reading all her past posts, including everyone else whom have contributed. From her posting, I know she is a true and huge fan of ShinHye and have been a fan of hers since Stairway to Heaven. When you love/adore someone that long, it's unlikely that you will harm that person intentionally, so please don't judge her with her love for ShinHye. Each person is different and we have different ways to express ourselves. Someone once said that we don't have information about ShinHye is this thread, Samane68 has been a person who have consistently bringing ShinHye information to this thread, even with her short presence in this thread. If that is not love that I don't know what you call that. It's take time and effort to contribute each post. Sameane68 is also a sensitive & caring person, you can see her concerns for ShinHye from her post expressing her support and concern for ShinHye due to the "cyber-bullying" issue. You can see that she is hurting and felt upset for being judged unfairly from her posts (please read back her 2 posts and the comments from that when she felt was left all alone without much support from anyone). In both cases of the conflicts/misunderstandings I didn't see them to be that serious. In particular the recent one, there is actually nothing wrong with her post.
Her recent conflict/misunderstanding
Let me help to interpret her recent post that seems to have caused a misunderstanding (but in actual fact I don’t see anything wrong with it…perhaps our level of english is the same so I can understand her)
@Samane68's comment
@avantjiang I'm sorry, dear .But you do not see the heirs interview DVD Cut ?
Her answer to the question was very interesting...When Shin hye posted two phone cases in her Instagram I was flying in the sky. It was said that other phone belonging to one of his girl friends, I do not know if this is true or not but I still doubt..Perhaps it is an illusion
The statement that she provided from the Heirs DVD cut should be received positively because this is a piece of FACTUAL INFORMATION from ShinHye. This support her statement to avantjiang why ShinHye may support couple items. Darling Shippers in this forum should welcome this fact for their delulu sake right? She is bringing in valuable info that other people don't even know since they haven't support all ShinHye's works like Samane68 has. Am I wrong to state this assumption. She is a person whom is capable / allow herself to delulu so I think it's only fair that she have this rights since she owns her own mind :-) and yes she also she "it’s an illusion" the very last line in her post so people shouldn't treat her comment as fact. An illusion is equivalent to DELULU. That's why I see that is absolutely nothing wrong with her post yet people twist her word instead.
So Samane68, please do not apologize to me about your recent post because as I explained above there is nothing wrong with your post.
Also, please don't blame yourself about me leaving this thread. I have explained in my last post that it's due to ShinHye's IG post that reminds me of the danger of "cyber issue" that I was aware of before already.
I hope you are not sad and hurt anymore and let me know that you are ok. So sorry if my last post have caused you further sadness dear. Please cheer up and continue to spread the love for the 2 people you love , ShinHye and JongSuk.
PS: My darling friends/SH's fans on this thread, please help and provide more love and support for @Samane68. If you see something that is no quite right in her future posts, please kindly let her know and I'm sure she is more than willing to correct her mistakes.
PSS: For the people whom have left me comments, thank-you all. Can't believe I kept on breaking my word but this is important because I'm very concern for Samane's wellbeing. My last post now #115.