My parents have found a community they enjoy spending time with in their church.
It has been a divisive problem between myself and them as the ideologies of the church are homophobic, judgmental and full of hell fire and damnation hiding behind the phrase "God is Love" . The church promotes the belief that Christians in the US are being prosecuted, the 10 commandments should be in school and God made our country great and that we are a Christian Nation. These are all seriously mis-informed beliefs yet we can not have a civil conversation about respecting others lack of belief or why they are NOT being persecuted, why the commandments do NOT belong in schools, and we are a secular nation, NOT a Christian one.
So..... in my case, it appears to be both and I lose either way.