sorry. now understand well. thank you. i related "if you are married..." to the pic i sent to you (big smile). yes, it is fine also in my opinion to take care of each other. in the other side hand we think each person takes the responsibility for his life of his own. in this way the need some space foe themself as well. the thai concept is similar like it was here in europe im the old days before industrialisation. we lost the conection to each other into familiys, except farmer,, and a lot of people are busy, even the were retired.
and now i have to sleep :-))