Dear Debbie I'm going out with a really nice man. We've been together for two years now. He's older than me, and he got married when he was really young. They got divorced after five years, and he was really upset, so now he doesn't like thinking about marriage at all. He says he would rather wait to see how things work out, but getting married and having a family are important to me. What if he never wants to get married again? I really love him, but don't know what to do! Should I wait for him?