Hey Determine, welcome! Im Charlene from Paktor and heres my tip to you for getting more matches and dates (at least 4X more): "Like" at least 50 profiles RIGHT NOW! You can like by swiping the photos you see, to the right. Also, add an interesting tagline, and have a clear photo of yourself! Do view our help video if you need guidance on how to use Paktor - http://bit.ly/1CT5xfO - If you have any questions in the meantime, you can reach me through the "Contact Us" button in "App Settings" or just email me directly at charlene@gopaktor.com. Have fun!