You have to be independent and you have to have some degree of stability in your life. I'm not spending my time playing therapist. It would be nice if you kept yourself in sufficient physical condition to be able to walk up a flight of stairs without getting winded, and if you spent a few seconds in front of a mirror in the morning as well I’d be ecstatic. Apart from that you can be whoever you want to be as long as you laugh at my jokes and smile when you look at me. what do you look for? If you have read my profile till hte end, please send me your kype ID so we can progress... Guy need to pay in here, so please do not wonder why I dont reply ...