3. To be unhappy because of your adolescent's situation and seeing your adolescent unhappy, and do your best to comfort and support while you yourself need comfort and supportThe present moment was heartbreaking. Eve narrated about the initial time at the rehabilitation ward, “He cried and cried and said, Mummy, I can't even pee myself and it's just so disgusting, when they have to change my nappy. And I tried to comfort him. He was like a little baby again.” Listening to her son weeping when he tells her that he has to wear a nappy, and get “changed,” she knows how humiliating this is for her independent son. His pain is her pain when she hears him crying and telling her how this feels. Eve said that he would never had told her things like this if the accident had not happened. Thus, their relationship had undergone a change. When she said, I “tried” to comfort him, this could signal that she did not that feel she was able to comfort him, because how could she comfort him in a situation like this