When you were young, Did you ever fall? When you fall, you are crying out and need somebody to support you, to get you up, to comfort you, to give you good feeling, and walk by your side. You solud know, that fall are normal. When you fall, Sometime you blame youself and can stand again and Sometime you blame the ground and hit it. Then you will hurt again. At first, If you choose to blame youself, you will skip over the pain and will not hurt again.