For the victims of cyberbullying, the threats and attacks may seem inescapable and they may feel helpless to do anything about it. While technology may make it easier for bullies to reach their targets, there are some things you can do as a parent to lessen the chances that your teens will be victimized:
Teach your teens about cyberbullying so that they know how to spot it if it happens to them. Also explain to them what behaviors are inappropriate online so that they don't become bullies themselves.
Encourage them to never give out their personal information or passwords online.
Keep an eye on what your teens are doing online and what sites they frequent.
Create rules about Internet use and enforce those rules with consequences. According to the NCPC, about 80 percent of teens said they either don't have parental rules about the Internet or can find ways around them. Make sure you're creating rules that can be enforced.
Instruct your teens to not respond to cyberbullies, no matter how angry they are, and to instead block threatening emails or instant messages.
Let them know that they should tell you if they ever get cyberbullied, and that you will help them figure out how to handle the situation.
Tell them to keep a record of any cyberbullying they experience, including any photographs that were sent.
Inform them that bullying incidents can be reported to Internet service providers and website moderators. If the cyberbullying involves threats of violence, extortion, harassment, stalking, obscene text messages or child pornography, the incidents can also be reported to the police.
What to Do if Your Teen Is a Cyberbully
Harder than finding out your teen is being bullied is finding out that your teen is actually the one doing the bullying. If it comes to your attention that your teen is engaging in cyberbullying, it is a good idea to tackle the issue immediately before it becomes a regular behavior.
Let your teen know that bullying of any sort is unacceptable, and what the effects are on the victims of bullying. Explain to them what types of jokes and emails are acceptable, and those that others may find offensive or mean.
It may be necessary to seek professional help for your teen if they are bullying. A therapist will be able to help your teen understand their behavior and develop empathy for others. If your teen is unable to stop their bullying behaviors or is not responding to therapy, it may be necessary to enroll your teen in a residential treatment center or wilderness camp for troubled teens that can help them address their behavior and learn more productive ways to interact with their peers.
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