In Holland and England the handshake is reserved for introductions. In France and Portugai employers shake hande daily with each employee. In Italy, Turkey, and Greece, everyone shakes hands everywhere in street, cafe, office, home on meeting and leaving his feiends. The America who is proud of him firm grip, and noemally uses an energetic one, may find it wise to ease off in many countries. In the Middle East, for example, the proper handshake is just a gentle pressure. And in the Orient, beware of personal contact, including shaking hands. Holding the arm or tapping the shoulder is an affront. Instead, practice a bow and you 'll have as firm a grip on the situation as is required.