Sabrina continually puts herself down with self-deprecating remarks, exercising the third restrictive rule in the preceding list. she either doesn't hear or soon forgets the positive feedback she gets from others in her group. when paid a sincere compliment, Sabrina finds some way to play it down or make a joke of it. if she is the focus of positive attention or receives any display of a joke of it. if she is the focus of positive attention or receives any display of tenderness, affection, or caring, she become extremely uncomfortable, yet she remembers and stores up any critical remaks and feels depressed.as ja would put it, Sabrina collects the "cold pricklies" rather than the "warm fuzzies