thank you for sharing your thoughts with me I think there is a slight misunderstanding about my last letter, what I meant was - 'was Kay assisting you with writing your letters', as your wording in letters was so good, I did not mean that your or Kay's giving should be conditional. Unconditional giving is akin to love I feel, it is inner beauty. Whereas cheating on your best friend is inner ugliness. We all have to be disciplined to do the right by others.