As I'm generally a bit shy, I tend to avoid certain situations.
And, as I was new to this town, I needed to meet some people. So I joined a weekly book club.
Even though I don't like big social gatherings, I do enjoy talking to small groups of people.
I don't like loud parties, for example, as I find them difficult places to relax and have real conversations.
I enjoy socializing there, as it's easier to talk to people when you have something in common.