Think of all the experiences you've had in life, so far. Contemplate the decisions you've made and how things have worked out for you. If you've made some good decisions, recently, congratulate yourself. If you've made bad decisions in past don't demoralize yourself, instead acknowledge what happened as a direct result of those decisions. If you don't like the outcomes, think about what would have happened had your decisions been different and whether or not it would be worth your time to try to make corrections. Cherish your good and bad decisions and accept that you've grown and changed for the experiences.