I think I was born with the indendence disposition so my parents did not have any problems to instilled in me, the determination to be my own person at a young age. Most of my relatives branded me "stubbon" and "precocious" because my responses to them were "I don't want to do it" and "why do I have to do it". I grew up in the temple school so the Dhamma is my core believe and the "middle way" is my guiding light. The older I get, the more Dhamma influence my thought process.