i did not marry because i have not found the right girl for me here, that is just the way it has gone for me. i have a cousin who is a girl, she is the same as me. we both want to find a person we like who has a good heart etc. i went back into education here so that took up a lot of my time [she did not but still had the same issue] etc. it is a perfectly fair question and i do not mind you asking me :))) a girl for me has got to have the things i am looking for which is about there character, that is why i look at this and not from what country is from because if you are looking at there character then what country they are should not matter, if someone says different then they are not basing it on someones character you do not have to say sorry for asking the question