an intelligent lady who is lively, sincere, honest, caring, well-mannered, and speaks gently, someone who knows how to take care of others kindly and thoughtfully. [NB: One need not have each and every quality 100%. The most important thing is that one has all and every intention to better oneself with these qualities (and perhaps some others as one may desire), becomes proud of one's achievement, and subsequently be at peace with oneself and others.]