Over time almost everyone develops a preferred style of dress, this style is usually a reflection of their inner personality. It’s important that the clothes you wear make you feel happy, express who you are, fit with your personality, goals and lifestyle. You must wear your clothes, they must never wear you.
Feeling self-conscious destroys any hope of style. Dressing in a way that pleases others and not you leads only to inner confusion and discomfort with yourself and your situation.