Honey,in order to make you feel more relaxed and comfortable with me, I am planing on shipping out some of my important luggage to you through the US Red Cross since I will be discharged from the military this coming month and I have a lot of things to bring along with me, I am coming straight to meet with you because we need to get to see each other face to face, get acquainted and it will offer me the opportunity to meet with your family and friends as well and after we must have spent quality time together with each other.