I think guys screw up on dates when they treat me TOO much like a lady. They're overly polite and don't see that I'm just like them and don't need my feet to be kissed the whole night. I find it phony and think it's a game. The best dates are when guys act like their true selves and let their date see this. I think the only thing they should do on a date is pay...if that doesn't sound too shallow I just think it's a standard.