The content of the what males and females talk about tenD's to be different as well researcher Deborah tannen has found that while feminine talk tends to focus on feelings relationships and people masculine talk tends to focus on sports music and facts
Women talk to explore problems but men do not Instead men talk to fix problems this can sometimes cause problems between the sexes Janet West a freshman in college remembers encountering this issue with a male friend recently "I told my friend Derek about a problem l was having with mh parents he immedlately came up with possible solutions to the problem Being told how to fix the problem and try talking with me about it instead He seemed completely confused and said Why bother talking about a problem unless you trying to find a solution to it