This little scenario should serve to teach you three very important things:real life is nothing like in films; never walk alone at night , whether you are a man or a woman; and , most importantly, use your brain and not your body to defend yourself against an attacker. Staying safe is all about not putting yourself in a potentially dangerous situation . Avoid a potential attack before it happens by using your common sense. this means don't go out alone at night, stay in well - lit areas, make sure someone always knows where you are , be aware of your surroundings at all times, walk with confidence and carry a mobile phone with you at all times. basically, don't make yourself a target. Attackers look for people who are vulnerable