as I said it before is a kamma to be involved into this circumstances of life...and kamma can make you believe all this and be exposed all since birth to this ideas.....some other country they cut the boys foreskin and in africa they cut the ladys clitoris...very painfull and they say god and the custom want it like this....so kamma only not reality...everything is empty is nothing ..people create all this in their minds and they push this ideas into their children...