Living well is a challenge.Brian Palmer, a successful busiessman, live in new york and works as a top-level manager in a large corporation. He is proud of his rapid rise in the corporation. However, he is even prouder of the change he has made recently in his ideas about success. "My value system." He says, , " he changed a little bit as the result of a divorce. Now i think differently about what is important in life.two years ago, with the same work load i have right now , i would stay in the office and work until midnight, come home, go to bed, and get up at six and work again until midnight. Now, my family is more important to me than work work and the work will just have to wait. " A new marriage and a house full of children have become the center of Brain's life . But such new values were realized only after the pain of the first divorce.