Honey is ok i understand but how do you want me to be happy when im not and all my friends and fellow military are happy is ok but mind you, your going to take care of me and what i want in life and our family ok, because i know this is a help from God but you want to refuse it, ok let me know when you want me to start coming cause im tired of here like i told you the talibans are coming after us and i dont want to loose my life more especially now i find you and that is why i want us to life a good life but you said no is ok by me..............Rita