Pick the most FIT: Some people have the opposite problem: rather than ignoring or not being aware of the aspects of their life they’d like to improve, they see way too many things to change. If that’s the case for you, you might want to use an approach we call “FIT”: feasibility, impact, and timeliness. Here’s how: look at those things you’d like to change, and decide which is the most feasible (you actually can change it – it’s in your control, and you have the needed resources), most impactful (will have the greatest positive effect on your life with the least amount of energy expended) and most timely (you can do it now, and doing it will create a foundation for further change). If you pick the one change that’s the most feasible, impactful and timely of all the possible changes you could make, it’s most likely to be successful. Which will both move your life in a positive direction and reinforce your faith in your own ability to make other changes.