It’s all operating on two really core assumptions that are particularly kind of wrong the first is that we know who we are and the second is that we know what we want and are being that were all at ted. I’m pretty sure we can all agree with this that anyone who’s had an existential crisis knows that they have no idea who they are. We are all trying to figure it out. We are all trying to become our best versions of ourselves but the thing is we are doing it in infertile soil were consuming much of the same content over and over and we are being surrounded by people who are all validating some themselves with each other but if we were to actually try to discover ourselves we would explore more. It is like following a map and you think you know where the exes but you also are pretty sure that you’re wrong and you’re following this route phone as well and the fact that you know you’re probably wrong means that any other route is just as right as the ones that you are on bud you are so focused on that one route that you are refuse to actually accept anything else put a more practical terms what that means that we forgot to embrace wonder we forgot to be curious and we forgot to talk to people that we might not otherwise plus pads with we don’t actually explore beyond our own territory even though the point is to figure ourselves out and for me that becomes the guy that pretends like he actually blows his nose every single time instead of actually taking it and that’s not actually true because I do take my nose here and there and that becomes me saying that I’m enjoying what I’m doing just because I posting on facebook and got a lot of like but maybe that’s not actually what I like to be doing maybe I’m just posting it because they are large number like under the photo