+Lester Kok "The ‘cougar conundrum’ in her case (a 15-year disparity in age relationship) is and will be a speculative subject since she had jealously guarded her private life."
TT herself admitted that the reason she went out with Paul was because Paul appreciated her without even knowing who she was. Now that means TT longed for a very private relationship. That usually comes from a person who is surrounded by tons of people but is feeling lonely.
I see the same signs in LaMu already. She is famous, and she is surrounded by people. But she shows her true happiness only when she is with her family in some private moments