Thank you for responding and not overreacting as some or most women would do based on my direct approach... style of asking the question, as it is of utmost importance to keep my sanity and deeply love my partner.
Staying in love with just one person, at our age and staying in love for the duration requires a very vast amount of binding trust and confidence in your partner. There is also the day to day job, work, passion, responsibility to continue to make the partnership work and last.
The old saying of watering the plant every day so it does not die comes to mind ! :)
So Sweet Heart Da, I hope I did a humble approach at addressing this topic with you.
Well ..let's just say I did an elementary verbal job of starting the foundation of what it takes to be part of the 50% of people that make it last! ;)
So I guess my response to your educated question requires some elaboration on your behalf as to what type of help you need.
Love,
Michael Retherford ;)