There are a lot of ways to make people not like you, but one of the most powerful — if least fair — is to be really, really successful. Nobody resents the guy who just lost his job. But the guy whose Internet start-up made him a billionaire at 25? That’s a whole different kettle of envy. Now, a study published by the Association for Psychological Science shows one way the winners of life’s lotto get the losers to like them more — or at least dislike them less.