If life only grants me one thing to change, then I'd like to be without the ability to blame. Then I readily accept responsibility for every action I take. I can readily accept everything life gives me. Not that I blame a lot, but if there's something I want to become true, it's this: I want to live without blaming, my life can only be better for it. However little I blame, I'd like to stop blaming altogether.
Currently to achieve this, I have many methods. One of them is seeing the world as my mirror, and making adjustments within myself from what I see without. It is a journey filled with many happy and inspiring ah-ha moments along the way.
I dream of how heavenly the world would seem when I can no longer feel any urges or need to blame. Undoubtedly it will be the same me and the same world, but how much more wonderful the world would seem. The same sight I've always seen, I will finally see for the first time.