The reason is the distance that separates us. This is the main reason. We would improve our english together. Perhaps it would not be a problem.
You ask me whether I want a special girl. I answer as folows: What is currently normal?
Girl, who drinks alkohol?
Who smokes?
Who is unreasonable?
Who is horny?
Who talk vulgar?
Who has no sense of humor?
Who is irksome?
If this it normal, then I say yes, I want a abnormal (special) girl. Do you understand me?
What should be your dream man?