Wealth and material possessions are not important factors when you choose a partner. You are not looking for monetary reward in your personal relationships and may even feel that too many financial considerations taint the affair.
Such a philosophy, though fundamentally honest and pure in motivation, may lead you into some rather financially impoverished relationships.
Learning balance in this area is something that often comes with age, but it is prudent to recognise early that insufficient physical security can eventually destroy a relationship.
As long as you have food and warmth, your love is free of your physical surroundings and is based on intimate personal communication.